The Queen of Swords
One thing I wish I had known when I was coming into my womanhood is the power of saying no.
I remember so clearly having a conversation with a good friend when I was in my mid 20’s and her sharing that she felt like she had to have a reason to say no. That she couldn’t just say it without being able to back it up with logic.
This is the power of the patriarchy, that we women feel we have no right to our own sovereignty without laying out a very good reason for our objections.
Enter the Queen of Swords ⚔️ This powerful archetype lives within each of us to show us the power of our boundaries. She is a woman who has lived through her fair share of powerlessness and has come out the other side as a fierce Protectress of our heart spaces. She understands that tough love IS still love, and that boundaries provide a sacred container for the most beautiful and luminous sides of ourselves to rule our lives with peace and joy.
If you take a close look at the card you can see this Queen holding a sword and standing guard confidently as two lovers enjoy each other’s company in the background. She provides the sacred space necessary for our hearts to shine their brightest.
Be this Queen for yourself, and remember, you don’t ever have to have a reason to say no.
If you are struggling with boundaries try getting yourself a piece of malachite to carry with you or incorporating a little pink yarrow flower essence into your daily routine. Sometimes the gentlest reminders can help tip the scales back towards self love.
If you are feeling like you need extra support, reach out for help, working with mentors and teachers is one of the best ways to really integrate new practices into your life. You deserve it 💓
